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Destiny vs. Free Will – by Tania

Predictions and Law of Attraction By Tania

Can You Recover from Disappointments Without Losing Your Enthusiasm for Life?
By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

What's the Significance of Reincarnation and Past Lives in Your Current Life?
By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

When Will I Meet My Soulmate?
By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

Destiny vs. Free Will – by Tania

OK, so there is "destiny" and there is "free will". Say you are destined to win the lottery in this lifetime. However, you lock yourself in your house and NEVER leave to buy a lottery ticket. It makes it kind of hard to win. Right? But since you are destined to win, somebody will eventually buy that lottery ticket FOR you and "voila", you win!

Whenever I read for people, I can often tell if I am reading karma or "destiny" (the stuff that is dumped in our life's path or contracts with others we choose to experience before we come into this lifetime.) Some of this stuff we want and have lessons to learn from, and some of it we don't want.

If you have a "connection" with somebody that you can't shake and there is a lot of back and forth drama, chances are the relationship is supposed to be in your life's path. You have probably shared another/other lifetime(s) with this person and have agreed to meet up again in this lifetime. Because this is karma/destiny, the connection would continue to exist until you have met each other agreements.

We cannot pick who we fall in love with; however, on this earth and in this body, we fall under very specific universal laws. The one I am compelled to share with you is "that which you think is drawn to you" or "as you think, so you are". This is The Law of Attraction.

The way it works (and this is without exception) is that whatever you are thinking is mixed with emotion (positive or negative), you bring into (or manifest) into your present reality. Sixteen seconds of this "recipe" is equal to two weeks of our "time". The problem is we are not always deliberately creating, drawing unto us or manifesting. We are stuck in anxiety and fear or depression all the while thinking about those things that cause us such negative emotion. The result is we are draw more of the same problems into our lives.

Thought + Emotion = Created Reality

Positive Thought + Positive Emotion = Positive Reality

Negative Thought + Negative Emotion = Negative Reality

Positive Thought + Negative Emotion = A Deadlock - Limbo Reality

If you want something so bad (i.e. your relationship to be more balanced without all the back and forth stuff) then focusing on what you want is good. However, when you mix it with emotions of anxiety or sadness because you do not yet have it, you are preventing it from coming to you.

Believe me it is not like you are a puppet master and controlling the whole situation. The other person has a "co-creating" role in this too, yet they are most often reacting off your energy/emotions and participating in the "separation."

So, because YOU have this knowledge, it is important to:

1. Block your energy whenever you are feeling "blue" (you do this by pretending there is an imaginary box all around you and you simply say to yourself, "my energy stays with me."

2. Keep your mind as blank as possible whenever you find yourself experiencing ANYTHING but positive emotion.

3. Focus on what you want. Ask yourself why you want it. Get happy about "having" it. Keep those THOUGHTS and EMOTIONS constant for at least 16 seconds.

I cannot emphasize enough how detrimental your anxiety and sadness over your situation creates an energy that is like "glue" - energy than cannot do anything because of this "bi-polar" force. How can it go forward and get what you want if you are holding it back with fear? Be positive.

You are in complete control of your life whether you have yourself in a Karmic situation or not. How fast you are attracting a prediction is completely up to you.


Predictions and Law of Attraction -By Tania

Predictions may not be happening exactly like you hoped or expected; however, THERE IS A REASON....The THOUGHTS you think while experiencing a strong EMOTION are pushing your desires back. . . . . . .

How Law of Attraction Affects Predictions

Love is Divine - we cannot pick who we fall in love with; however, on this earth and in this body, we fall under specific Universal laws. The one I feel compelled to share with you is "The Law of Attraction".:

Your thoughts are like magnets. The way it works (and this is without exception) is whatever you are thinking while at the same time having a strong emotion, you are attracting into your life.This is called manifesting. Only a few seconds of this so called "recipe" is the equivalent of two weeks in attracting "it" closer to your present.

The problem is you may not always deliberately attract or draw unto yourself or manifest. You get stuck in anxiety, fear, or depression - all the while thinking about those things that cause you such negative emotion in the first place. The result is you are drawing more of the same.

If you want something so bad: ie. your relationship to manifest into a commitment without all this back and forth stuff, then the focus on the relationship is good; however, when you mix it with emotions of anxiety or sadness because you don't yet have it the way you want it, then you are preventing or blocking it from coming to you.

Believe me it's not like you are a puppet master and controlling the whole situation. This other person has a "co- creating" roll in this too, however they are reacting off your energy/emotions and thoughts(telepathically).

Now that you have this knowledge of how powerful your thoughts "mixed" with emotions are, it is important to:

* Keep your mind as blank as possible whenever you find yourself experiencing ANYTHING but a positive emotion.

* Flip your focus to what you want rather than what you don't have. Get excited about it and hold that "experience" for only a few seconds.

I cannot emphasize enough how detrimental your anxiety and sadness over not yet having it is. You are creating energy that is like "glue" - energy than cannot do anything because of this "bi-polar" creating.

herefore be mindful of your thoughts and especially while having a strong negative emotion.

 

Can You Recover from Disappointments Without Losing Your Enthusiasm for Life? By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

Having a bad experience can sometimes leave a "picture" or stuck thought in your aura--the area two feet around your body. Thoughts are real and can occupy space. When you leave a negative picture in your aura, it begins to attract energy.

Often, you then create experiences to validate that negative image, for example, let's say Bill sees a competitor taking his client. He becomes upset and creates a negative image in his mind which says, “Competitors take my clients!" He does not release the energetic charge on that thought. Thoughts can collect energy. Bill agonizes over the event with the competitor who took his client and his energy starts to go into the image. Because Bill is powerful, the image starts to manifest, grows, and becomes energized. Soon, Bill has many competitors taking his clients, thus validating the stuck energy pattern in his reality.

In the Psychic Tools Class, you learn to isolate the negative experience, de-energize it and store it in the aura, so you can recall the experience without having it manifest more of the undesired outcome. You no longer are controlled by the negative experience. Since there is no longer an energetic “charge” on the thought, it does not collect energy.

Some gurus teach a mantra or an “erasure” technique. Erasing the experience serves as an immediate relief from being stuck on a thought or concept. Using a mantra or erasure will take out the memory of the bad experience. In Bill’s case, Bill will completely forget the experience of the competitor taking his client.

On the one hand, using a mantra or erasure might seem like a great solution, but if you consider that we, humans, incarnate here on planet Earth to gain life experience, erasing all memories is not a great solution. I have learned that it is not productive to erase all your pictures or thoughts because you, the spirit, learn through experience, and when you erase all your thoughts and memories, you must then recreate them all over again. There was a reason you acquired that life experience in the first place.

Another way to deal with disappointing experiences taught by some spiritual teachers is to leave the body in order to avoid negative and painful experiences. Visualizing yourself away in another world is a way of leaving the body. This is not the answer either because the negative energy and negative prints are stored in your body while you are not there. Negativity stuck in your aura and your body eventually manifests into some sort of problem, unhappiness or disease.

Learning to de-energize pictures or negative thoughts using psychic tools releases the charge of the negativity in the thought, but you still retain the memory of the experience. There are several ways to de-energize pictures taught in the clairvoyant training program, as well as tools to increase your awareness, work with energy, and start to find your own answers. De-energizing the experience allows you to remember the experiences you have been through, but it does not allow them to take away your happiness even if it was a negative experience.

Here’s another example, say you broke up with your boyfriend, and now you want him back, but he’s moved on to someone else. You keep thinking about him again and again. You can collect images of him into an energetic rose, just by imagining the rose out in front of you absorbing thoughts and colors that remind you of him. Once you get a sense that the rose is full of the pastime thoughts, you can imagine that it bursts or explodes into a billion pieces and disintegrates. Congratulations, you have just freed yourself from stuck thoughts. There might by thousands of strongly charged images of him in your aura. It might take exploding several roses full of thoughts until you completely feel like you are not controlled by the obsession of your ex-boyfriend, but know that relief will be yours soon.

 

What's the Significance of Reincarnation and Past Lives in Your Current Life? By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

When I was a child, I had an invisible playmate. I thought I had imagined a leopard jogging along side of me as I ran along the canal in New Mexico where I grew up. Imagining that I was a man with this leopard, I later ran track in physical education at my junior high in Texas . I continued "seeing this leopard" in my mind. At that time, I wasn’t sure why even thought I was a young female, while I ran or jogged, I would picture myself as a tall man.

When I turned 18 I went to see a psychic who immediately said, "You have a past life as a man in Africa with a pet leopard. In fact, the leopard is with you here in spiritual form." I just about fell off my chair. How could this lady have known that?

"Why should a psychic look at past lives?" you might ask when thinking about getting a psychic reading. As a reader myself, I rarely look at past lives during a psychic reading unless the lives somehow pertain to what's going on for the seeker in this lifetime. Much of our current behavior can be traced back to past lives. Often, we bring the information from the past life forward to aid us in the current life. You might envision your past lives being a bunch of files in a file cabinet. When you are ready to change careers, for example, you might open up this file cabinet and pull out all of the files where you made a successful career change. I’ve even seen people pull up past lives in which they weren’t successful or they failed at a task in their past lives. Examining failure helps us to not make the same mistakes a second time.

The clairvoyant students in the six month program often read past lives at the free healing clinic. Explaining a certain behavior that an individual has can be the first step in changing that behavior. I knew a secretary who suddenly had a problem typing because her third finger on her right hand would uncontrollably start hitting the letter “k” every few strokes. It was greatly impacting her work because even the simplest memo was laced with k’s. She came into the clinic and asked the clairvoyant reader to give her a healing. The reader saw that she had severed a finger in a previous life, and that life had somehow been pulled forward and was impacting her life now. The reader helped to de-energize that life and re-filed it into her past life aura. She immediately stopped having the problem at work.

When my friend, John, first joined the clairvoyant program, he resisted the idea of reading past lives because he didn’t believe in them. He was brought up in Texas and he jovially boasted that “People from Texas don’t have past lives!“

The director of the psychic institute insisted that he learn the technique to see a past lives. He reluctantly agreed and the first person he read was a neophyte lady who came in for a reading.

John used the past life reading method that was taught to him. He immediately saw in his mind’s eye, that she had used toothpicks in her lifetime as a cave woman, and that she was in the same relationship with the man she was with now. He got the impression that they fought about the issue of toothpicks. He thought he was imagining things.

He wondered, “How could this be real?” He also thought this sounded ridiculous, but he found the courage to tell her about it anyway. To his surprise, the lady he was reading opened up her purse which was filled with toothpicks.

"Thanks," she said, "I never knew why I always carry so many toothpicks with me and you have explained it to me. Now that I have the answer, I don’t have to carry them anymore. I’ve had many fights with my husband over my strange desire to carry these toothpicks around.”

During my 22 years of spiritual training, I've learned many things about life through reading past lives. For example, we live on a planet that has had intelligent life for thousands of years earlier than scientists and archeologists maintain.

One of my students read a past life thousands of years back where a man was driving a futuristic vehicle. I believe from the past life readings that I’ve given that advanced cultures existed long before our scientists claim. Tools and artifacts exist dating back much further than current experts acknowledge. There are newspaper articles every year about how scientists have found evidence of ancient civilized societies including finding human footprints embedded in volcanic rocks dating back to 3.6 million years ago.

Imagine a planet that has been covered with lava several times over, each time destroying most of the traces of earlier civilizations.

Another startling claim by famous clairvoyants and prophets such as Edgar Cayce and by the Rosicrucian religion is that reincarnation was known and originally mentioned in the Bible, but that parts of the Bible have been left out.

There have been too many personal experiences for my students and myself for me to not believe that reincarnation is real. We often see in a clairvoyant reading, that the seeker has unfinished business from past lives with the people in this life.

To find some of your own answers, you can get a past life reading at a free reading clinic. You can "read" yourself, by quieting yourself, closing your eyes and going within. Good questions to ask yourself while meditating are: What are you working out with members of your family--your mother, father, brother, or sister? Do you owe this person? Does he or she owe you? Is there something else going on that pertains to a past life that is affecting your relationship? Listen to your inner voice for the answer. Awareness is the first step in change.

See You This and Next Lifetime!

 

When Will I Meet My Soulmate? By Vessa Rinehart-Phillips

Are There Really Soulmates?

Often as I give a clairvoyant reading, I am asked, "When am I going to meet my soulmate?" The timing of a future relationship can be read in a person’s aura. The way I read this is by first looking at the seeker’s aura as a color. Then I slide his or her energy along an imaginary timeline and I see if there is a change of color over a particular month or year, as I silently ask myself this question. If there is a change, then good news--this person will meet a romantic match. If there is not a change, and his or her energy goes along a timeline far into the future and off the timeline, then bad news--given his or her current activity schedule and energy, he or she is not on a path to meet a mate.

Don't worry--a future prediction is not always set in stone. You can change your future based on your thoughts and actions. This means that if meeting your mate is not on your direct path, you need to change your path and actions. Perhaps your soulmate lives on the other side of town and does not work at the same location as you, nor does he or she shop at the same stores. You must increase your chances of meeting your soulmate by altering your current spiritual path by joining a singles book club, church group, the Sierra Club singles, or post your personal ad online.

One example of this situation occurred when I gave a clairvoyant reading to a woman, Sarah, (not her real name). Sarah asked me the question,

“When will I meet my tall, dark, handsome man?” Clairvoyantly I moved her energy slowly along a timeline for her future life. After seven years, there still was not a change in the vibration or color of her future, meaning that she would not meet her man within that time.

I told her “Given your current path, you will not meet him in the next seven years unless you change your path.”

The room was silent, then Sarah spoke, “You mean that I can’t just continue to go to work, the ladies’ gym and to the same grocery store to meet my match?”

“That’s right,” I replied. Sarah decided to adjust her schedule to include going to places that she did not normally frequent. She also joined some clubs and engaged in some social activities. As a result, she was able to speed up her path and meet her new beau, Mark.

Next comes the question of soulmates. I have read many people who asked me if they have a soulmate. I almost always see that people have more than one soulmate or spiritual lifetime partner to choose from who will help them complete their growth here on earth. I have seen up to twelve soulmates for one person. This doesn’t mean that you have to have a serious love-relationship with 12 people! It merely means that you have many choices. Some people can choose the soulmate that they want to spend their life with. A soulmate will help you complete your growth here on earth by providing an energetic agreement. Many people who help us grow will not be romantic partners, but instead, will be your siblings, parents or teachers.

Soulmate can also be a spirit that was once united with you. You have split and become separate. Having a life together completes you and your mate. We are all of the same source, spirit, or a part of God. In a sense, we are all soulmates with each other. We are one, yet striving to find our own separate identity and unique vibration to become “pure of heart”. Once we achieve this vibration, then we have truly reached enlightenment.

Will you be ready to meet your soulmate once you have changed your current schedule, path and actions? Not only do you need to physically change your path, but you need to spiritually change as well. The more "whole" you are spiritually, the easier it is to find your match.

The final question is, "How do you become whole as a spirit, and prepare yourself to be a great partner to your new mate?"

The answer: Clear your stuck thoughts and negative energies from your inner essence. Begin now to learn psychic tools to change energy and thought patterns in your electromagnetic field. Finding a clairvoyant teacher to help you facilitate your growth can help you to start to resonate at your highest vibration. This will make fewer obstacles on your path towards love and will help you to attract your true companion.

 
 


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